| Globe and Mail
November 27, 2009
Former Canadian Olympic champion Mark Tewksbury joined globesports.com
for a live discussion on homosexuality in sports. A multiple medalist
as a swimmer at the Barcelona and Seoul Olympics, Tewksbury was
the first Canadian athlete to voluntarily reveal his sexual orientation
while still competing. Here are some excerpts from the transcript
of the online chat, which can be found on globesports.com:
As a gay person, ironically, I was always guarded and insecure
when it cam the environment for progress to happen. Brian Burke
being a GM hopefully speaks to other men in positions of power in
professional sport, letting them know that this issue (and others
that make people feel uncomfortable at times) exists, and that by
addressing it in a straightforward and positive way, ultimately
will make sport better.
As puberty hit, I knew I was different. Hiding that was always
an issue during my career. As I became more known, the challenge
of being honest about who I was and really living my life as an
open gay person became increasingly difficult. But with time I was
able to bridge that gap. But it was a very challenging journey.
I do sometimes wonder what it would have been like had I been ready
to announce that I was gay when I swam. Coming out to a coach my
final year of sport helped me unify that energy within to finally
focus on the external goal. I made a seven-year improvement in 10
months. I wonder how much better I might have been had I been able
to unify that energy earlier.
People seem to fall into assumptions and generalizations naturally.
I remember Elvis Stojko having to announce that he was not gay.
Not sure how we change this part of human nature.
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